What makes therapy with me different

One therapist for all your threads

Therapy that gets your condition and the multiple layers of your life

I have spent literally thousands of therapy hours with people just like you navigating the complex and often overlapping worlds of pelvic pain, menstrual health, and chronic conditions. With me, you’ll find someone who truly understands these in their lived, unpredictable, often frustrating realities.

I’m well-versed in medical terminology, treatment plans, and medication side effects, so you won’t need to spend your therapy time translating or teaching. And if you're working with a pelvic floor therapist or other medical providers, I'm always happy to connect so you can have more joined-up support and aren’t left piecing it together alone.

While your health may shape a lot of your day-to-day life, I know it’s never the whole story. As a licensed marriage and family therapist and certified sex therapist, you don’t need to split your care between different therapists for different parts of your life. If it’s on your mind, it belongs here. This is therapy that can hold all of you.

Therapy that sees your unique nuances

  • Your feelings around navigating medical systems, trying to receive a meaningful diagnosis, and making decisions in the face of treatment options that rarely offer easy solutions.

  • Negotiating work, family, and other responsibilities alongside flare-ups and shifting energy levels

  • Relationship dynamics with friends, families, and partners

  • Sex and intimacy (including pain in sex, loss of interest in sex, and wanting to reclaim sexuality and pleasure for yourself)

  • Fluctuating moods you may be experiencing

  • Making sense of your identity amid all the shifts and challenges you’re facing

As a certified sex therapist and licensed marriage and family therapist, I’m trained to hold all the different threads of what you’re going through. This might include thinking about:

And the bigger picture

  • Women’s health has been overlooked within medical research since its inception, leaving many conditions that affect women still hugely understudied, misdiagnosed, and poorly understood. What's more, our medical systems continue far too often to silence and dismiss women's voices and body knowledges, and minimize women’s pain. I get how harmful gaslighting has likely been in your story, and I want you to know that I always believe and listen to you.

    I also recognize that multiple other axes of structural oppression intersect with misogyny and sexism to have very real and pronounced effects on physical and mental health, including racism, colorism, ableism and heterosexism. In therapy with me, I give space for these harms to be named, giving context to the challenges you’re facing. This can be an important step in alleviating any self-blame and shame and reclaiming your voice.

  • Too often I hear women in larger bodies being told by medical providers that their pain, fatigue, and other symptoms would disappear if they just lost weight.

    This response overlooks the underlying causes of these conditions (many of which, as I mentioned, are vastly under-researched), and shows total disregard for the realities of living with these conditions—like trying to avoid a heat-induced MS flare from exercising, or being in such debilitating pain that getting out of bed is impossible, let alone making it to the gym.

    It also reinforces a cycle of shame—where you're made to feel at fault for your body, your symptoms, or your limitations—rather than offering real support or understanding.

    I work from a fat-affirming, health at every size perspective. That means I won’t pathologize your weight or treat it as the problem to solve. At the same time, I fully support your right to choose weight-loss medications or surgeries without shame or apology.

    Together, I’ll support you in discovering what’s right for you and your body, on your own terms and by your own metrics—not by a number on a scale or a BMI chart.

  • Living as a neurodivergent person—especially when navigating menstrual dysfunction, pelvic pain or other chronic health issues—can feel overwhelming and leave you feeling misunderstood.

    As a neurodivergent-affirming therapist, you won’t be pathologized for how you process, relate, or exist in the world. You’re not here to be “fixed”—you’re here to be understood and resourced, and find support living in a world that is not designed for you.

    For instance, we might look at how how your menstrual cycle influences your executive functioning or sensory thresholds, or how flares can relate to autistic burnout. It’s all connected—and it’s all welcome here.

  • We live in a world with very real pressures that shape how we live and care for ourselves. It’s hard to rest when there are bills to pay, rent to cover, and people who rely on you. Many of us also grow up learning—often without it being said directly—that our worth depends on how much we’re achieving. That might look like getting good grades, advancing our careers, or earning a bigger paycheck.

    These drivers can push us to keep going at all costs, even when our bodies are asking us to slow down. Over time, this can leave us feeling depleted, disconnected, or questioning our value when we have no choice but to stop.

    In therapy, we can explore how these pressures show up in your body, your energy, and your sense of self—and whether there might be ways of moving through them that more fully honour what you and your body need.

A key part of the way I work is holding awareness for the different systems people are navigating. For example, I can hold space to think about what it’s like to live in a world…

Don’t just take it from me…

  • "As a physical therapist, I know how integral the mind-body connection is in the healing process, and I’ve found Jessica to be a tremendous asset in helping patients address the emotional and psychological aspects of their health. I’ve seen firsthand the positive impact of her work on our shared patients, many of whom benefit from the integration of both physical and emotional healing. Jessica is someone I trust implicitly with referrals and know will provide excellent care."

    Dr Chelsey Vasquez, PT, DPT, PRPC, CMTPT

  • I have worked closely with Jessica for at least 5 years and she has been an invaluable resource for my patients. I feel confident referring patients to Jessica that have struggled with chronic pain, pelvic pain, or pain with sexual intercourse to her due to her ongoing continuing education, specialized training, and her years of clinical experience. She makes her patients feel heard and valued and helps them navigate these difficult topics. 

    Dr. Kimberlie Landers, PT, DPT, PCES

  • "Jessica is not only incredibly knowledgeable about women's issues, but she presents information in a way that is approachable, engaging, and never intimidating. Jessica's resources she provides are invaluable, and her passion for advocacy and empowerment is truly inspiring."

    Val Bruno, Licensed Professional Counselor

  • "Jessica offers a distinct and much-needed viewpoint on menstrual cycles and their significant effects on mental health. Through her perceptive insights, Jessica increases consciousness and cultivates significant discourse that unites menstrual cycle and mental health. Jessica is a vital voice in the profession because of her commitment to activism and education."

    Liliana Baylon, LMFT-S, RPT-S, Bilingual (Spanish/English) & Bicultural Therapist, TEDx Speaker

  • "Jessica’s approach is warm, grounded, and refreshingly direct in a way that instantly puts you at ease. Her honesty and clarity build rapport quickly, and from the very beginning, I felt comfortable asking questions and exploring areas where I wanted to grow. She creates an environment that feels safe, collaborative, and deeply respectful. I would highly recommend her to any client, organization, or therapist seeking a strong, thoughtful, and attuned supervisor."

    Rachel Wise, Marriage and Family Therapist Candidate

  • "I thought I was pretty informed about women's bodies, but after going through the videos and content on this subscription, I realized just how much I didn’t know. The information has expanded my understanding of anatomy, menstrual health, and relationships far beyond my expectations. I now approach my cycle with so much more awareness, and I’ve even started planning my work schedule around it to better match my changing energy levels. It’s honestly been life-changing, and I really wish I’d had access to this information sooner."

    Lucy, (a very grateful!) Subscriber

Getting Started is Simple…

When your energy is stretched thin just keeping up with your body’s ups and downs, organizing therapy shouldn’t be one more drain on your reserves.

That’s why all sessions are virtual, and you can simply search my calendar for a time that works for you. Ready to get started? Click the link below…